One of our lawyer-friends, whom I’ll call A.S., has just discovered that her girlfriend has been sending and swapping love quotes and messages with her former boyfriend.
He’s hurting a lot, but still loves her so much to the point of feeling scared to call it quits and lose her.
I say BREAK OFF WITH HER, PRONTO!
What she’s doing is NOTHING LESS THAN INFIDELITY! In or out of bed, infidelity is infidelity regardless of how it was committed!
There is no MORAL AND SANE REASON for you to throw away your self-respect and dignity for a DISHONEST woman. That kind of lady does not deserve even a drop of true love from anybody.
Think about this: WHAT GOOD will happen if you continue to love her blindly? If you can’t cite any, then why keep her?
Personally, I’ll bet you a thousand to one you will LOSE THE RESPECT of family and friends and be branded as a WEAKLING, at the very least.
You’re a lawyer. You’re smart and educated. Definitely, you deserve someone BETTER than her. There are thousands out there to choose from!
All you have to do is open your eyes WIDER and START LOOKING AROUND! Believe me, God allowed your discovery of the messages to happen because it’s His way of waking you up.
And to help make it easier for you, here are some excerpts from a blog I had written months ago entitled “How to move on after your lover leaves you!”:
Pray hard for spiritual guidance. Ask the Lord to lead you to where He wants you to go, to what He wants you to do, or to whom He wants you to meet.
Return everything that your former sweetheart has given you. If she won’t accept it, burn it, all of it.
Then, STOP GOING TO, or even passing by, all the places the two of you used to drop by. If you hear your theme song, switch stations or better yet, turn off the radio or the TV.
Enroll in a gym even if you’re not overweight. If you can’t afford it, start jogging or walking several kilometers daily and exercising at home. Push yourself to the limit, until you’re too tired to even think about anything or anybody.
Drown yourself in work. Go on overtime as often as you can. If there are seminars, be the first to volunteer, especially if it could increase your chances for a promotion or pay raise.
You will be too busy to think about her, but will LEARN MORE, and eventually EARN MORE. Not a bad alternative, right?
Lastly, start going to HOUSES OF CHARITY -- homes for the aged or the disabled, street kids and unwed mothers and orphanages.
You will see a lot more people in far worse conditions than yours but life goes on for them. If they can move on, WHY CAN’T YOU? 30
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