A personal female friend of mine has just asked me how can she tell if he suitor is serious with her or not.
Your suitor is serious if:
He doesn’t hide anything from you about his past or present, his immediate family and relatives and his personal affairs which you should know as his beloved.
He’s not courting anyone else as per your verification.
He DOES NOT PRESS or demand for your decision, and waits PATIENTLY as in until it comes from you.
He’s also interested in your family, friends and loved ones. As the saying goes, if you love somebody, you also love everybody she loves.
He’s NOT AFRAID to face your family and everybody else you can think of anytime, anywhere.
He courts you AT HOME, first and foremost, before anywhere else, old-fashioned as it may seem.
He gives way to your priorities like office work or family matters and makes his presence felt only when you’re free.
He remains consistent in the care and concern he has been showing since he started courting you, even if it has already been months and he can’t see any real clear sign that he stands a good chance.
He doesn’t change even if you reveal unpleasant facts about yourself or your family, or there will be changes in your professional or financial status.
He’s present, even if you don’t ask him to, when you need help like when you’re stranded in a typhoon or going home alone late at night. If he can’t come, he’ll constantly call you until you’re home safe.
He doesn’t ask, insinuate or even joke for anything in return for whatever favors or gifts you receive for him.
He’s courting you for who you are, not what you are or what you can do for him or his profession, if you become lovers.
If your suitor shows these signs, DON’T LET HIM GO and start out with him at once. You’ll be depriving yourself of a chance for true happiness if you won’t. 30
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