One of our readers from Binan town in Laguna has been down with fever and severe cough for the last three days. She doesn’t have extra money for medicine and has no one else to depend on.
Her businessman boyfriend WOULDN’T EVEN GIVE or send money for medicines, or bring her or have her brought to the doctor. Months earlier, she talked to him about her back problem. The guy said “See your doctor,” then left her on her own.
But at least once recently, he took her on a weekend to Baguio
And get this people, her boyfriend would ask her to come to his place if he wants to and if she’s not sick. If necessary, he would have his staffers pick her up.
Clearly, this is EXPLOITATION, NOT LOVE.
Keep this in mind, boys and girls: If your sweetheart really loves you, he or she will waste no time in caring for you if you’re sick or helping you if you’re problematic over something.
Your lover will do it voluntarily.
Caring and concern are two of the UNCONDITIOINAL proofs that your sweetheart is dead serious with his or her love for you.
If your sweetheart can’t be with you, you’ll still feel his or he presence through phone calls or text messages, or sending whatever help you need as soon as possible.
True love doesn’t wait, or makes any of the partners wait, in time of sickness or trouble. True love is seeing to it that your partner is safe and well, free from any risk and not worrying about anything, anytime.
If your lover abandons you in time of trouble or need, then you’re not his or her sweetheart.
You’re nothing more than an alternate outlet for sex, an extra source of money or a substitute companion if he or she is lonely or bored and nobody else is around.
The moment he or she finds somebody younger, sexier, prettier or handsomer and wealthier, that will be it for you.
Don’t be surprised if you’ll be thrown out of the affair like a stinking rag, or an escapee from the home for the aged. Don’t expect any respect from your lover, either.
Why? You allowed him or her to exploit you, to use you. You let him or her get away with it. 30
Love is there but unavailable that is according to Dr. Diaz...you can only give what you have...so in a relationship you'll only show what has been shown to you by the people nearest you...so if your parents can't show the affection needed for you to gain a strong foundation then you yourself will only be capable of loving within your capacity to love...
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