A WEAKLING AND A LIAR!

Sally G of Muntinlupa is agonizing on whether or not to let go of her boyfriend.

She had found out that he had been seeing his balikbayan ex-girlfriend without her permission. When she confronted him, he admitted it but claimed it was purely social and for old times’ sake.

I immediately advised her to BREAK OFF with the guy, PRONTO.

I told Sally the guy was a WEAKLING and a liar who doesn’t really love her.

Remember this ladies, if your man hides something from you, that means it’s ‘ILLEGAL’ in your relationship.  Whether or not there had been sex, that’s CHEATING!

 If he really loves you, he wouldn’t cheat on you!

He would tell you about it, and even invite you to accompany him for your peace of mind if it’s really nothing more than a social or business call.

I personally know at least two couples who practice this transparency and believe me, the relationships just keep on getting stronger.

If your guy hides anything from you about a girl and him, whether or not she’s an ex-sweetheart, that can only mean that he is aiming or hoping for something else.

Apart from renewing old ties or having coffee or an innocent lunch.

He’s a weakling for not having the guts to resist the temptation or the prospects of an unexpected adventure from another girl.

So consider this:  If he can deceive you now and get away with it, NOTHING will stop him from cheating on you again in the future, under more heart-breaking and explicit circumstances.

If he’s a weakling who can’t fight off even the simplest prospects of lustful indiscretions, what inner strength and moral support can you expect from him in times of real trouble and distress?

Bottom line: YOU’LL BE THE LOSER, or THE BIGGER LOSER, not him. 30