When cheating strikes a relationship, the immediate question of the grieving partner to the other is “Why?”
Here are some common, and often overlooked, reasons:
NEGLECT – One partner loses time for the other because of work and the pursuit of his or her ambition.
FINANCE AND LAZINESS – The man isn’t earning enough for their household needs and is not doing anything to increase his income.
VERBAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE – One partner insults and curses, and in some cases hits, the other for even the slightest mistakes, or limitations even if he or she is helpless about it.
VICES -- One partner won’t stop his or her vices even though there’s no extra money for these and the household needs – food, bills to pay or school expenses for the kids – are already being affected.
UNSTOPPABLE INFIDELITY –- One partner won’t stop cheating despite the other’s pleas. So, either out of revenge or loneliness, the other partner starts entertaining admirers from the opposite sex.
ONE-WAY AFFAIR – One partner has turned out to be a dictator on the other – the relationship runs only on his or her terms and desires, and he or she is always, and the only one who is right. The other partner is always wrong.
SEXUAL INCOMPETENCE – One partner can’t satisfy the other sexually, and is not doing anything about it even if the problem has been categorically revealed by his or her lover.
LACK OF AMBITION – One partner has no plans or dreams for a prosperous and happy future and lives by the day. Or he or she has but is not working for it, giving the impression to the other partner that the relationship will not grow and go anywhere.
IMMATURITY – One partner doesn’t think and act according to age, and doesn’t listen to the other partner’s pleadings to start growing up mentally and behaving properly.
So how can you prevent your partner from cheating on you? JUST DO THE REVERSE OF ALL OF THESE. 30
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