BE TOUGH, WHENEVER YOU HAVE TO!

Hi, guys, I’m back.

Back with yet another important reminder for all of us when it comes to love.

In a relationship, see to it that you’ll BE TOUGH whenever you have to. Don’t just threaten. Stop getting angry if words can’t drive your message home into your partner’s brain. BE TOUGH.

Remember this: Not all bull-headed partners can be scared off by words alone.  There will be times when you will have to show that you mean what you say.

So if you say you’ll call for a ‘cool-off’ if your partner does something and you’re still ignored, DO IT.

If you warn your partner that you wouldn’t see him or her if he or she insists on something, go on with your daily life by yourself.

Not just for a day or two, or right after your partner woos you with kisses and hugs and chocolates or flowers.  Warm up to your partner only when you see indisputable proof of the change (s) you want in him or her.

Don’t answer phone calls, or reply to text messages. Even with the intercession of somebody. Avoid your partner like a plague.

And if your partner will still take you for granted, go for the kill – BREAK UP WITH HIM OR HER!

Regardless of whatever dramatics he or she will pull up, tell your partner that you’ll only reconsider the relationship again if you’ll see concrete changes in him or her.

It may not be that easy to do and say but think about this – there is no sane or moral reason either to continue wasting your life on somebody undeserving.

If your partner really loves you, that should make him or her start towing the line.

If your partner won’t, then that should make you realize that you had wasted your precious time, effort and most of all love on somebody unworthy of it.

Keep this in mind, boys and girls, for the rest of your lives: In love, the tough is RESPECTED, the weak ABUSED. 30