ANOTHER 'NO'-NO' IN A RELATIONSHIP!

Here’s another ‘no-no’ in a love affair:

Don’t jump into conclusions based solely on what you think or what others say (rumor or tsismis)) about your partner.

Look for EVIDENCE, INDISPUTABLE EVIDENCE, FIRST. And as what I had written in an earlier blog, ask first before you accuse your partner of anything.

There are three immediate risks in taking somebody’s word as gospel truth.

First, there is no assurance that what is being relayed to you is 100 percent accurate. It’s another person’s interpretation of whatever, but you’re the one who knows your sweetheart or partner best.

Second, there is always the possibility that the person relaying something may have other motives in mind, like destroying your relationship to steal your lover away from you.

I personally know of at least three cases like these.

Third, unless you see it for yourself or will be in possession of INDISPUTABLE PHYSICAL PROOF and not just the words of another person, you can never be sure that the information you’re getting is COMPLETE IN DETAILS.

Any or all of these risks will lead only to one thing, a HELLISH RELATIONSHIP brought about by ERRONEOUS JUDGMENT and appreciation of half-truths or inaccurate information.

The love affair is then wasted and an opportunity for true and lasting happiness flies out to the wind.

All because of a narrow mind which didn’t bother to look for proof first and preferred instead to let somebody else’s mere words dictate his or here state of mind.

End results: You lose, not the informant.  It’s you who’ll get hurt, not the informant.

The choice is yours. 30