Both personal and Facebook friends asked me for more indicators after reading our preceding blog “12 Signs You’re Losing Your Lover!”
So here are eight more danger signs you should watch out for:
Your partner starts doing everything you hate or dislike, and argues with you when you take note of it;
From readily giving you his or her mobile phone whenever you want to look into it, your partner gets mad when you ask for it and either refuses outright or takes a couple of minutes before handing it over to you.
Instances when the mobile phone is turned off or on silent mode are getting more and more common than before, with staff meetings or business negotiations as the usual reason.
Business meetings or out-of-town trips are getting more and more frequent than usual, even though he or she is not up for promotion or not a senior executive at work.
And if you could automatically tag along on these trips before, there are now a hundred and one reasons why you no longer can.
Last minute, unexpected overtime work are getting more often, with strict instructions for you to go home ahead and not wait for him or her for dinner and bedtime.
Your partner starts blaming you for each and every quarrel you get into. It’s always your fault. Never his or hers.
Your partner starts wearing or using accessories and other items like perfume or clothes which weren’t given by you, and never before tried or bought by him or her for personal use.
If you’re living together, your partner’s credit card bills for dinners, mall purchases you never received or even saw, are steadily getting higher monthly, without you seeing the billing statement.
When I was still in media, I came across cases wherein both the man and the woman had their credit card bills mailed to their offices instead of at home.
I’ll have some very practical suggestions on how to win back your lover and save a relationship in future blogs. 30
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