PROS AND CONS OF JEALOUSY!

Jealousy has been an age-old problem worldwide for lovers.

Like any other consideration in love, jealousy has its pros and cons.  Let me remind you of a few realities for both sides.

The biggest pro of jealousy is it’s a PROOF, and a REASSURANCE, of your love for your partner.

Jealousy is one of the SWEETEST REMINDERS that somebody loves and cares for you. You’re the MOST IMPORTANT PERSON for that someone so you must be thankful and must treasure it in every possible way.

We all look for importance in a relationship, don’r we?

Remember, being neglected or taken for granted are among the most common reasons why people in a relationship still look for other lovers. Don’t tell me anybody disagrees.

Jealousy will also show to your partner that you’re TOUGH!

Tough enough to stand up and speak for your right if you have to and to draw the line between what is allowed and what is not in your relationship.

In doing so, you will show that you’re somebody who deserves RESPECT. And anybody who has a tough and respectable partner will NEVER think of looking for someone else while they’re together.

Just be sure that your jealousy is JUSTIFIED, or RATIONAL

Be jealous only if you have to, like for example: When your partner TIGHTLY HUGS as in, a supposed close friend for a minute or so instead of the usual few seconds, or French kisses him or her instead of the traditional  buzz on the cheeks.

Or if your partner spends A LOT MORE TIME talking to a friend than you while you’re on a date, especially to the point of IGNORING you altogether, and not even introduced to the other person.

If there’s no solid reason to be jealous, DON’T BE.  Distrust breeds quarrels, and eventually fiery arguments. Whatever you for or however you value each other will be MEANINGLESS.

There will NEVER BE PEACE in your relationship or union. End game – SEPARATION OR DIVORCE.

NOBODY would want a partner who doesn’t trust him or her. Patience runs out.  Never, ever have the DELUSION that it won’t, no matter how much you think your partner loves you.

Anyone who doesn’t feel or see any trust from his or her partner will always look for, and readily go after, somebody else.

You will be the loser, not your partner.

Separation or divorce, however, can be avoided with one simple trick –TALK THINGS OUT! More of that in future blogs.

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"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.." I Cor. 13

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