A question often asked in today’s materialistic world is what should a person use in falling in love, the HEART or the HEAD?
I say the heart. Follow your heart BUT USE YOUIR HEAD!
Time are hard, no question about it. So tough for some, especially for those who are depended on by their families, that financial security takes priority over personal happiness.
A very SERIOUS MISTAKE that you will regret for the rest of your life.
Believe me, people, money is MEANINGLESS without someone you love to share it with. Be it in the millions or just in the thousands.
Surely, we’ve all read or heard of a story or two about adultery by a commoner spouse of a filthy rich person. Or of a super wealthy person who admitted to LONELINESS OR BOREDOM after amassing all the money or success he or she had always dreamed of.
Tell me you wouldn’t want to end up like them, boys and girls.
Even ordinary mortals can prove what I’m saying for themselves with a very simple test.
Compare the time when you had a sweetheart whom you really loved and shared sweet and happy moments with, even though there were instances that you survived only on sweetened banana barbecues and one can of soft drink because you had no money.
To the times when you were with someone purely out of financial security, or you were earning more than you wanted and can afford anything you want, but was ALONE!
With which were you happier? Where did you feel more satisfied and fulfilled?
I’m NOT SAYING that you should love BLINDLY with your heart.
No matter how much you love a person, you must use your head in handling the affair.
Be sure that your feelings will be reciprocated.
You must see to it that your partner will respect and care for you as much as you do for him or her. Your partner must always be with you through thick and thin, in good times and in bad, in trouble or in peace.
One who will not abandon you in hell or high water. A lover who loves you for who you are, and not what you are, what you have or what he or she wants you to be.
If you don’t see these in your partner, GET OUT of the relationship, and I mean FAST!
Your partner DOESN’T LOVE YOU!
Your partner’s a USER or an OPPORTUNIST or both. After getting what he or she wants, and finding somebody younger, sexier, richer and prettier or handsomer, that’s it for you.
You’ll be worse than a USED RAG which must be disposed of, pronto. Promise! 30
those characteristics you mentioned requires maturity on both persons. i like the portion wherein you said about having no money and just sharing on the same banana cue and soft drink. thats really true. we are bound by our shared experiences whether happy or sad. it depends on both persons how to use them constructively. it takes two to tango.
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