There is one word which can make or break a relationship, if ignored and left unspoken whenever it has to be.
You guessed it right, boys and girls, ‘SORRY!’
Let’s face it, guys, saying ‘sorry’ when you have to is the BEST and FASTEST way to settle quarrels or even patty misunderstandings.
It wipes out the tension between the two of you, puts the smile back on your partner’s face, patches up the gap created by the spat and, most of all, helps endear you more to him or her.
How? By saying ‘sorry’, you prove to your partner that you have the civility, and the HUMILITY, to admit your mistake if you have to. And nobody in his right mind would let go of a humble lover.
Saying ‘sorry,’ people, won’t hurt, physically or emotionally. Bear that in mind, especially the ego-trippers out there.
It won’t give you a headache or a stomach ache. It won’t trigger a heart attack, or numb any part of your body. Most of all, IT WON’T DEHUMANIZE YOU or make you A LESSER PERSON!
‘Sorry’ or ‘I’m sorry’ will only take five to 10 seconds at most. Add another 10 to 15 minutes for the ‘lambing’ you’ll do until she smiles.
Saying ‘sorry’ WILL NOT END the relationship. Refusing to say so will.
I have a friend based in the United Kingdom who recently found indisputable proof of womanizing in her husband’s belongings. The husband confessed, but DID NOT say ‘sorry’
My friend waited for an apology, until she got tired, emotionally. When her husband noticed this, he tried to win her back with petty sweet nothings like cooking dinner for her. Still, he did not apologize.
Now, after 15 years of marriage, all that’ left is for them to sign their divorce papers.
Just because the husband was sky-high on an ego-trip that he wouldn’t say ‘sorry,’ 15 years of marriage are about to be flushed down the divorce toilet.
Anybody here wants a similar ending for the relationship he or she is into?
If your lover does not, and will never say ‘sorry,’ and even wouldn’t admit mistakes, get out of the relationship, as in IMMEDIATELY! PRONTO!
You’re with a MENTALLY-SICK, if not yet INSANE, person who looks at you not as a sweetheart or spouse but as a catch basin for his or her faults and mistakes.
As far as your partner is concerned, he or she is a PERFECT INDIVIDUAL. You’re not so he or she WILL NEVER owe you an apology, no matter what happens.
That’s being worse than a SLAVE, or his or her pet dog! You’re OUT OF YOUR MIND, if you would allow that! 30
There are guys out there who apologizes yet repeat the same mistake over and over. Saying sorry is not just about being sorry for what you did, it entails the responsibility to "not do it again" or at least "try" not to make the same mistake.
ReplyDeleteShame admission is not even a sign of humility, neither is self justification. You don't need to justify what you've done or reason out.
Sincerest apology in my opinion should come from self realization that yes, I was wrong and I regret so much that I hurt you. I'm sorry...
That alone is enough. I think. ^_^