Keeping the trust in a relationship isn’t really a problem.
Be TRULY TRANSPARENT. I mean, truly but REASONABLY transparent with your lover.
First, never hesitate to inform your partner immediately of anything he or she must know. Most especially if it’s about your ex-lover, like an invite or a gift, or about a new or persistent admirer.
Do so even if you think there’s nothing wrong in not revealing it.
Remember, an unwritten rule in a relationship is both partners have the right to know everything about each other, with emphasis on what can possibly affect the affair.
So, never hide anything from your lover. It’s one of the best ways for you to show that you really love him or her. You don’t hide anything because you’re honest in your relationship.
Keep your sweetheart in the dark only for two reasons: You want to surprise him or her, or the issue is rather unpleasant and solely about your family or a family member.
Family issues or concerns are confidential, and should always be treated and respected as such, by your lover.
He or she will be exempted only when you’re married.
Or if your lover is the only one who can help solve the problem, and that to do so, he or she will have to be fully briefed of the situation.
Concealment results to suspicion and distrust. Suspicion and distrust weakens, and eventually kills a relationship.
Transparency breeds trust and confidence. Trust and confidence strengthens a relationship. A strong relationship will lead only to one thing – LONG-LASTING HAPPINESS. 30
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