Shirley of Bacoor, Cavite, is about to take on a new boyfriend for 2012 after being alone for more than two years. She has her own small business. The guy is an ordinary employee in a private company.
She’s requesting for some signs of an opportunist or a user.
I wrote an earlier blog about this several months ago. Allow me to share some excerpts with Shirley and the rest of you ladies can watch out for this menace in 2012.
The guy’s a USER if:
When it’s you who spends most of the time, IF NOT ALWAYS, on your dates.
When he asks or demands that you treat him to expensive restaurants or bars, and doesn’t pledge to share even a peso for the bill.
When more often than not, he asks you to pay for what he likes, even though he doesn’t need it, at the mall or at the supermarket.
In all of these three signs, he throws tantrums or loses his cool whenever you turn him down. Neither does he show or express any shame for not being able to pay or share in the bill.
Whenever you say you have no money, the guy would rather stay home or go somewhere else than be with you. He comes up with all kinds of reasons just to avoid you.
He insists on meeting your rich or influential friends for no clear reason. He forces himself into accompanying you to parties or events wherein you’ll be with very important people, even without you asking him to.
Once you’re in the event, he sees to it that you’ll find a way to introduce him to them.
He demands, and not just requests, for your help, financial or whatever, to ease or solve the problems of his family members and loved ones.
The guy doesn’t express or show any ambition in life. He has no plans on how to earn more or on how to succeed at work.
HE DOESN’T HAVE ANY INTEREST at all on how to start even a small-scale business to be financially independent.
HE NEVER CONSULTS you on what can he do to at least uplift the quality of his personal life and ease your burden in looking after his needs and welfare.
Once you see any of these signs, break up with him as soon as possible. For your boyfriend, you’re not his sweetheart. You’re his piggy bank. 30
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