Reacting to our blog “15 Signs Your Lover’s Only After Sex,” a personal friend asked me: So what’s the best way to deal with that kind of guy?
I only gave her one suggestion – BREAK OFF WITH HIM, as in IMMEDIATELY!
Regardless of how much you love him, or whatever you’ve been through together since you became sweethearts. Believe me, he doesn’t give a damn about it.
Whatever care and concern he had shown you before you began giving in to his sexual demands is only FOR SHOW. He just TOOK YOU FOR A RIDE (pinasakay ka lang) until you had fallen in love to the point of going to bed with him.
If a guy’s only after sex, HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU!
As I’ve said before, Sex may be a part of Love but Love is not Sex, alone.
Among others, Love is caring -- what you need and what’s best for you first before his own interests, or keeping you safe and strong in every possible way and as often as he could.
Like taking you home as often as possible, or accompanying you whenever necessary.
If the guy really loves you, he will respect you – your wishes, decisions, limitations, principles. He won’t insist on what he wants, especially if it’s really unrealistic and improper.
Check out an earlier blog I had written, “11 Signs Your Boyfriend Really Loves You!”
The longer you tolerate his sexual exploitation, the faster he’ll lose respect on you. He’ll look down on you as nothing more than a SEX TOY whom he can play with anytime he likes.
Not as a lover whom he must treat with utmost care and courtesy.
And when he finds somebody prettier and sexier, younger and more successful professionally or financially stable, trust me, he’ll dump you like a stinking rag.
Tell me none of you ladies out there would want to be in that situation, please.
You want a little secret about guys, girls?
We will ALWAYS go for women who respect themselves more than anything and anybody, regardless of the looks and whatever else.
Find out for yourselves. 30
This is a good post, Boyet.
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