One of our friends, whom I’ll hide under the name Jenny of Muntinlupa, has started out with a new boyfriend after almost three years of being alone.
She wants some tips on how can she tell if the guy really loves you.
Allow me, boys and girls, to reply to Jenny with these excerpts from an earlier blog I had written precisely about this issue. Boys, you can pass this to your daughters, sisters, relatives and friends.
Your boyfriend really loves you if:
He is as caring and concerned as the day he started courting you.
If he wants a date but you have to finish something for the office or for school, he won’t insist and will instead help in any way he could.
Whenever you have a problem, at home or at the office, HE DOESN’T DISAPPEAR and is with you ALL THE WAY until it is solved.
He is as worried as you if there is a sick or problematic member of your family.
Unless he’ll be tied down to work or other circumstances beyond his control, he sees to it that he brings you home nightly, especially if the weather’s terrible or you’ll finish late at school or at work.
He is as sweet as ever with you.
He still opens doors for you, pulls your chair whenever you dine out, goes out of the car or the cab first and takes your hand as you follow and patiently waits for you and doesn’t eat ahead if you arrive late at your date,
He calls or gets in touch with you as often as usual if he's on an out-of-town assignment.
He speaks his mind out when he thinks you’re wrong, not just about your relationship but with anything else. This means he really loves you because he wants you to be a better person.
And he never humiliates you in front of anybody whenever you’re at fault. 30
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