IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED SUITOR!

A 22-year-old girl from Pasig is falling in love with a married suitor. The guy is separated, or so he says, but she’s confused on how to handle the situation.

DON’T GIVE your precious ‘Yes’ yet. You must be 1001 percent sure that he’s worth it, and that you won’t be entering into a complicated situation wherein you can never win.

First, ask for proof that he’s separated.

Request that you be introduced to his kids, if any, and to his family/siblings as soon as possible.

If he readily agrees to it, then most likely he’s telling the truth.

If he turns you down, and would not run out of reasons why as days go by, HE’S LYING.

Second, get his complete address and pay him a SURPRISE VISIT, as in when he would LEAST EXPECT it like 6 or 7 in the morning, to see for yourself if the wife isn’t really there anymore.

Just be sure you’ll have a logical alibi.

Third, get a DETAILED explanation of why they separated. Think hard if it’s realistic. Even if the wife isn’t home, it may not be a separation but simply a lovers’ quarrel for all you know.

Fourth, question him intensely about the whereabouts of the wife and their separation terms and conditions.

If he’ll have no problem in immediately revealing these, that’s another good sign. He has nothing to fear of you checking out the wife and personally verifying if they had indeed parted ways.

If he’ll say he doesn’t know where she is and has no convincing justification why, you’re in for trouble, girls. That means he’s hiding her from you.

When a man hides something or somebody from the girl he’s courting, he’s not being entirely honest with what he’s been telling her.

DISHONESTY IS NOT, and will NEVER BE, the same as Love.

Fifth, ask him what he’s been doing to officially end their marriage once and for all.  Be sure he’ll include a timetable in his reply.

If he can point out any move he’s been making, and a target date to accomplish the task, it’s an indication of his sincerity and honesty.

If he can’t cite anything, trust me, he’s just taking you for a ride.

Turn him down at once and focus your attention on the love proposal of your more deserving suitors.

All you have to do is open your eyes,  WIDER. 30