Before anything else, sorry for not having posted Love Post yesterday, boys and girls.
Hey ladies, here’s one simple tip that could help you determine early on if the guy is seriously in love with you or not, if he’s deserving of your affection or not.
Go for REASONABLE COURTSHIP. Take note, reasonable, not EXTENDED. I’d say two to three months.
Loving is not just for the looks. That’s lust, not Love. Consider these:
You’ll never find out if the guy’s a gentleman, if he has good manners and right conduct, or if he’s principled or not, in just a day or a week.
Unless you own a detective agency, or can afford to pay several people and spend on a simultaneous background check on him, or put him under 24-hour surveillance, you’ll never know him well enough in a week or two.
You wouldn’t know, among others, if he’s married or not or a swindler or a criminal hiding from the law.
Remember, countless are the single mothers who found out that their lovers were married only when they got pregnant. You wouldn’t want to be in that situation, would you?
You couldn’t even be sure if he already has a girlfriend (s), or is courting other girls apart from you, unless you check it out or start asking around.
And again, you can’t do it in a day or two, believe me! Especially if you’re working, or you have your own business which you must personally supervise.
Just one thing: Be sure to use your head in the process.
Sometimes, you can catch a guy’s deception with his own words. So listen to every word he’ll say, and think hard if it’s logical or possible, or not.
Don’t be shy to ask other people, especially your older family members or relatives, for their opinion or evaluation of your assessment of the guy.
They’ve been there before. Their wisdom would be a big help in guiding you to the right decision.
Regretting in the end is the WORST THING that can happen to anyone. Keep that in mind. 30
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