THIS IS DECEPTION, NOT LOVE!

Have a truly merry, blessed and bountiful (especially to the kids, he he he) Christmas, everybody. Let’s all mark this day not only as the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ but also as our own re-birth, in Love and Forgiveness.

I was enjoying my Christmas eve with the family when I got a private message from one of our regular readers, whom I’ll hide under the name Ian of Baguio City.

Ian had just tried to break up with her married boyfriend but the guy refused. He threatened instead to drive his car down a ravine if she’ll leave him. She doesn’t know how to handle the situation.

I immediately replied to Ian that the guy’s just fooling her, that it’s nothing less than emotional blackmail.

I told her ‘May magpapakamatay bang nagpapaalam pa kung kalian at paano ang gagawin (Would anybody intent on committing suicide inform concerned parties and say when and how will the suicide be)’?

Second, I pointed out to her that she herself admitted that the guy never left his family since they started out several years ago.

But now, he claims he’ll kill himself if she goes. As if saying, he’s willing to leave his family for her.

So WHY DIDN’T HE right from the start, if he really lover that much, I told Ian. The guy’s supposedly a businessman so he has the money for a lawyer and an annulment. Why didn’t he file for one? How do you reconcile that?

Next, I asked Ian what’s her guarantee that the guy wouldn’t leaver her if he meets somebody younger, prettier, sexier and more professionally successful than her?

To top it all, I suggested a simple test to Ian. For those in a similar predicament, consider this:

Ask the guy to initiate annulment proceedings as soon as possible. Require him to sign all the papers IN YOUR PRESENCE before he starts it.

After he signs the papers, DEMAND that you must be informed of where the annulment will be filed. Then, ask anyone in your family, or your most trusted friend, to verify it for you.

If he refuses to go for annulment, or deceives you in the supposed filing of the case, then he’s FOOLING YOU and is only AFTER SEX, AFTER YOUR BODY hanggang sa pagsawaan na niya (until he’s had enough of it).

And even if he does file an annulment case, impose a NO SEX condition while it’s in the works.

If he really loves you, that wouldn’t be a problem. If he refuses, then he’s only after a FREE FUCK. Time to kick her out of your life, FOR GOOD! 30