Reacting to our blog on non-verbal ways for guys to say ‘I love you,’ Jamworld Mike of Paranaque asked me if there’s a female version for it.
Unlike in that blog, I will not suggest categorically saying “I love you’ for girls in whatever form or manner.
Believe me ladies, the number of men who’d rather court a girl than be propositioned by her is still a lot more than those who want women to make the first move.
So I hope these tips would help:
Be as sweet as you are whenever you’re talking on the phone or chatting online. When you’re together, flash your widest smile at every opportunity as you look at him straight in the eye.
If he’s in distress, help in whatever way you can even if he doesn’t ask you to. If he’s sick, call him. If he’s bedridden, visit him as soon as possible.
Show interest in his personal details and family members whenever you get the chance.
When you talk, find a way to ask him about what he looks for in a girl. Practice or adapt to whatever he’ll reveal as the days go by until he notices it himself.
Compliment the good things or achievements of anyone among the family. Volunteer assistance if you can if he’ll confide any problem they have to you.
Remember this, ladies: Men will ALWAYS FALL, one way or another, for women who are concerned with and interested about them.
And don’t forget to invite him to special occasions, whether at work or in the family. If you need, or could use, an escort like a friend’s birthday party, don’t be shy to ask if he’s available.
There’s NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF with an innocent invite.
On the contrary, it’s one of the most effective ways to make the guy feel how special he is to you, that you prefer him for a partner over anyone else.
These are just examples, ladies. Whatever trick you choose, keep your SELF-RESPECT and DIGNITY intact. 30
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