NEVER ACCEPT THESE TO JUSTIFY INSTANT SEX!

Veron dela Cruz of Caloocan City is asking: Is it correct to say that sex among lovers nowadays is normal and that it is a need?

At face value, it’s true.

Virgins are now a rare breed worldwide. It’s a given fact that even high school kids are already aware of. As far as I know, extreme lack of sex has some bad effects on the body.

But girls, here’s the catch: NEVER accept these arguments as justifications for your lover’s insistence to have sex with you whenever he feels like it.

If your lover picks on your conscience with these lines as he insists on sex, believe me HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU.

For him, you’re just a sex partner, not a lover.

As I have written before, sex is a part of loving but love, true love, IS NOT JUST SEX.

If it’s contrary to your principles, your lover will respect it if he really loves you. If you don’t feel like doing it for whatever reason, he will NOT FORCE or pressure you.

If you say you’re dead tired from office or school work, he will be the one to ask you, first, to rest at home and not take you anywhere else.  Same thing if you’re sick or not feeling well,  

If he really loves you, your dates don’t always have to end up in bed, even if sex is as normal as cheeseburgers and fries nowadays.

He will patiently wait until you give in.

While doing so, he will be just as happy with sweet and private moments with you – sharing a good laugh, exchanging tight hugs and kisses, swapping jokes or dreams, the works.

A guy really loves you if he will be content and considerate with whatever limitations or hesitations you may have when t comes to sex.

That’s what true love is all about – loving and understanding everything about you, and not just what he wants from you.

Think about these, ladies.

Otherwise, don’t be surprised if he dumps you like a hot potato after endlessly giving in to his lust. 30