NEVER BE INSECURE ABOUT HIS EX!

Another critical but often overlooked aspect of love affairs is insecurity by the girl over her lover’s ex-partner.

And I strongly recommend that NEVER BE INSECURE about her.

Insecurity, first and foremost, is a sign of character and emotional weakness and lack of self-confidence.

It’s us guys who are supposed to be tough, first. But believe me, we would always prefer women who are just as strong-willed, or can be stronger, than us.

A woman who could stand by and help him instead of being an added headache or burden. Never mind if she isn’t as pretty or sexy as the weaker ones.  

Second, insecurity breeds mistrust and makes you judgmental.

Wittingly or unwittingly, you question your man like a suspected criminal. Before you know it, you’re quarreling as if you’re at war, for no sensible reason.

Depression and disappointment then creeps into the guy. End result, the love is diminished and the relationship dented.

You lose, and not your lover’s ex or the object of your insecurity.

Third, you’ll be torturing yourself senselessly.

It’s you who won’t be at peace, not the ex. It’s you who will be always tense, sleepless, out of focus or whatever. And you’ll be dead wrong if you’ll expect your guy to love and pity you more.

On the contrary, YOU’LL TURN HIM OFF. Believe me!

Instead of being insecure, or jealous, show you’re guy that you truly love him by giving him your full trust.

Assure him, verbally and through action, that you’re happy with his love and nothing and one can take that away from both of you. Not even his ex.

Keep in mind that it’s you who have him now, no longer the ex. And the only thing left for you to do is treasure and cherish the affair forit to blossom forever.

Do this and your lover won’t even dream of looking for someone else. Believe me.  30