Another common concern of lovers everywhere is how to avoid temptation.
Loneliness and disappointment are two of the most common reasons why lovers succumb to temptation.
So whenever you miss your lover call or text or chat, especially if he or she is out-of-town or in another country for work or on business.
Keep a picture or any souvenir from your sweetheart in your wallet or bag, or even in the pendant of your necklace.
Whenever you’re disappointed or frustrated with your lover, don’t keep it to yourself. Speak your mind out and settle the issue immediately.
Whoever is at fault, work on or remedy the disappointment as early as possible to avoid any dent in the relationship.
Never compare your lover unnecessarily to others. Either way, it will only create a gap between the two of you.
For the guy, he might take the comparison as a manifestation of the girl’s dissatisfaction with him and trigger a desire to look for somebody more appreciative of his limitations.
For the girl, wittingly or unwittingly, it might prompt her to take a closer look at the other guy.
When a guy makes a pass at you, or a girl teases or propositions you, respond at once by saying that you already have a lover and is happy with him or her.
Once you get attracted to a member of the opposite, sex, avoid that person like a plague whenever you can.
Unless it’s work related or an emergency, never be alone with that person even for coffee or an innocent chat.
And as I always recommend, engage in productive, and possibly new activities to ease loneliness or boredom especially for long distance relationships.
And never forget to PRAY. 30
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