PART 2 : HOW TO SURVIVE TRIALS IN RELATIONSHIPS!

I’m giving way to Villa Vhil’s reaction to our blog on “How to survive trials in relationships.”

Villa said to survive trials, lovers must also:

Sacrifice; find good things in each other; be consistent and trustworthy; respect, trust and find time for each other; think positive and make God the center of the relationship.

Let me just elaborate on a few of these very inspiring words of wisdom.

BOTH LOVERS must sacrifice whenever necessary to save the relationship. Either simultaneously or one at a time. Love is, and must, always be a two-way street. That’s UNCONDITIONAL and NON-NEGOTIABLE.

If one of the lovers refuse to sacrifice even if it’s a must, then that means he or she doesn’t want to save the affair so the other DOESN’T HAVE to do so either.

Being consistent must be encompassing or in everything, from the basics like being as sweet and patient since you started out as lovers to the character he or she saw in you when you first met.

Finding time is a MUST, but need not always be being together.

Finding time must be taken as feeling the presence of your sweetheart as often as possible, physically or not.

So if circumstances are beyond one of the lover’s control, like office deadlines to meet, text messages or a brief phone call can make up for his or her absence.

The receiving partner must be understanding enough to appreciate the effort of the sweetheart-sender. Otherwise, he or she will put a crack on their relationship.

Respect your sweetheart not just because it’s part of good manners and right conduct.

Do it to make your sweetheart feel really special and important to you, that it’s proof of your true love. Trust me, he or she will do nothing less than love you more in return.

And in making God the center of your relationship, do so every single minute of everyday. He is the BEST ADVISER both of you can turn to in times of trouble.

It’s HE, not the two of you, who will have the FINAL DECISION, on your relationship.

Thanks, Villa.  30