A reader from Bacolod
Here goes:
Your boyfriend threatens to break up with you if you won’t give in to his lust, while battering you with the cliché “Kung talagang mahal mo ko, papayag ka sa gusto ko (If you really love me, you’ll make love to me).”
After the first time, he now CATEGORICALLY DEMANDS for sex when he’s hot, regardless of your condition or mood or their priorities for that day.
Related to this, he requires you to begin learning more about sex. I personally know of such a case guys, promise.
He starts openly or vocally admiring other women even in your presence. If you protest, he raises hell.
He starts getting colder and colder after the first, second or third sexual encounter.
The time he spends with you is getting shorter and shorter following the sex. From being his top priority before, he’d rather be with his barkada (gang) now first than with you.
If there’s no assurance, or possibility, that your date will end in a fuck again, you’ll need a miracle to make him agree to go out.
Worse, he’ll ask you to take along somebody else instead.
His paglalambing (sweetness) – holding your hand, putting an arm around you, giving you a hug every now and then – is vanishing faster than crushed ice.
He now does whatever he wants even if he knows you don’t like it, and he had initially pledged not to do it.
He has resumed socializing with women without informing you.
Most of all, you’ll start getting word from friends that he has been disowning you as his sweetheart whenever he meets someone new or flirts with other women.
Bottom line, ladies: The moment you see even one of these signs in your man after going to bed with him, confront him.
If he can’t give a convincing justification, BREAK OFF with him.
As I’ve written in one of my earliest blogs, in love follow your heart, but use your head. 30
ganyan naman yung mga ibang lalaki, sabi nga pagkatapos kang pagsawaan iiwanan ka na nila.
ReplyDelete