HOW TO GET OVER A REJECTION!

To be rejected by the man she loves is one of the toughest experiences a woman can suffer. Getting over it isn’t that easy either, to some anyway.

I hope these suggestions will help:

Lock yourself up in your room and keep repeating in your mind that he’s NOT the only guy left in the world, that there are a thousand more out there much better than him.

In all honesty, ask yourself what could have he not liked with you. Examine yourself INSIDE AND OUT. Guys don’t just go for looks but more importantly, for PERSONALITY.  Believe me.

Some of the most common turn offs for guys include:

You’re a PRETENDER – you speak and act like a rich kid even if you’re not. You talk in straight English even if it’s filled with grammatical errors.

You lack poise. You talk, walk, move and dress up more like a man than a girl.

You’re too mataray or suplada (snobbish and condescending).

You’re too talkative.

You’re too conceited and a credit grabber. You boast that you’re very good in everything even if you’re not asked about it. You claim to be a part of, if not behind, every accomplishment or wise decision of people associated to or under you at work.

You have poor social graces.

You interrupt in conversations even if you’re not part of it, or asked for your opinion. You lack proper table manners.

If you think you need to consult close friends, don’t be shy to do so. They will understand, if they’re your true friends.

Once you’ve drawn up your faults and imperfections, put your heart and soul into correcting them.

If necessary and if you can, spend time and money on books, related websites, dermatologists, beauty parlors, the gym and others which can help you achieve your goal.

While doing all these sacrifices, condition your mind to the thought that you’ll show him what he had lost in rejecting or ignoring you.

  

And continue socializing with and meeting new men. But appreciate them as they are, and not what your dream guy is. While waiting for your next, prospective Mr. Right, keep yourself busy and productive.

At work, push yourself to the limit until you’re rewarded and recognized for your effort.  And as I’ve written in an earlier blog, explore new activities or hobbies like Church and charity work. The busier you are, the less you get to think of him.

Bottom line: The best person who can help you is YOURSELF.  30