Trials in relationships start when one of the partners gets attracted to someone else.
The common reasons are money, looks, social or professional status and character.
To immediately wipe out the attraction once it starts, both partners must immediately practice two things: DIALOGUE and MUTUAL ASSISTANCE.
If you get attracted to another person who is richer or earns more and faster than your sweetheart, bring it up with your partner as soon as possible.
NOT THE ATTRACTION itself. You’ll most likely kill your affair on the spot.
Talk to your lover CASUALLY about your dreams in life, zeroing in on items you’ve always wanted to have. DON’T DEMAND. Acknowledge his or her financial limitations.
Then discuss how you can help him or her earn more.
But n the process, BE CONTENT with what your lover has and LIVE WITHIN the means of both of you.
For looks, imagine what had attracted you to the other person and suggest to your sweetheart to try it out. Simply say that you think it will make him or her handsomer or prettier.
Your sweetheart should listen and give it a shot. Extend assistance if you can, financial or referrals. But be sure to understand his or her physical limitations and don’t have unrealistic expectations.
For social or professional status, help your sweetheart achieve success in his or her job or profession.
Refer clients or customers.
Guide and assist your lover in his or her office work for the best presentation or performance possible for recognition by the bosses and possible promotion.
If you know influential people or entrepreneurs who can give your sweetheart a better-paying and professionally rewarding job, or would be interested in financing or promoting his or her ideas, introduce them to each other as soon as possible.
And don’t forget to extend moral support whenever necessary.
When it comes to character, tell your sweetheart what turns you off the moment you get interested in somebody else. Don’t hesitate to suggest on what changes you would prefer. It’s your right as the lover.
If your sweetheart won’t listen to any of these or you’ll still be attracted to another person, then BE TRUE to yourself.
Reveal everything to your sweetheart and call for a cool-off, or end the relationship altogether. DON’T CHEAT. Attraction to another person is NEVER A PASS for cheating. 30
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