WHY MEN FALL OUT OF LOVE!

A female personal friend of mine from Makati suggested this blog. She said she did everything for her boyfriend but he still broke up with her after five years for another girl.

Here are some reasons, ladies, why men fall out of love:

You’re no longer as pretty and desirable as before. For one reason or another, you have neglected your looks – face, figure, skin, hair, etc. And you’re man doesn’t see any effort in you to correct these.

For no justifiable reason, you’re getting too possessive and distrusting.

Even if he’s at work, you check on him every hour by the hour. You set unreasonable limits for his trip to work and his return home, even if he only commutes.  I have a personal male friend who suffers from this setup.

You question him like a suspected criminal on each of his female acquaintances despite his explanations.

You’re getting too demanding. Whenever you want him for whatever reason, he must join you immediately. You don’t give a shit as to what he’s doing and it’s his problem to find a way.

You’re turning him into a robot because you can see that he loves you so much and there’s no one else but you.

Unlike before, you now want to dictate each and every move he makes, from the clothes he’ll wear to the accessories he’ll use to the way he’ll talk and carry himself.

Even if there’s nothing wrong with his personality now.

You no longer respect him. You shout at him, throw tantrums or do anything you like anytime and anywhere you like even if it will humiliate him.

The relationship is getting boring.

Your guy doesn’t see anything new in you. You no longer have the initiative to keep the relationship exciting. You leave everything to him.

As I’ve written in an earlier blog, loving must always be a two-way street, not just one.

If you’re living together, you seldom, or have stopped cooking. You no longer keep the house clean regularly. You no longer prepare his needs before he goes to work. Instead of you, he does the budgeting for the household.

I gave some tricks on how to handle a relationship in my earlier blog “How to keep the love alive.” Check it out.

Consider all these, ladies, before it’s too late. 30