PART 2: WHY MEN FALL OUT OF LOVE!

For this piece, I have incorporated reactions and comments from Maria Dolores Santos of London, United Kingdom; Bong Lumang of Quezon City; Josephine Matias of Manila, Gov Rolls Royce of Sao Paulo, Brazil; Villa Vhil, Jet Toledo of Angeles City,  Pampanga and Gemma Kim.

Here’s Part 2 of “Why Men Fall Out of Love:”

You nag too much and it’s getting more and more unreasonable and intolerable. As an old saying goes, guys are in heaven when their wives or partners don’t scold or talk too much.

You never say sorry when you’re wrong. You either put the blame on somebody else or defend yourself by hitting back at his imperfections.

He no longer feels as important as before. You spend more time on friends or hobbies and social activities.

You’re never open to change. Incompatibilities which you both either overlooked or ignored are starting to come up but you don’t show any effort to work it out with him.

Related to this, you ignore his requests to mend even some of your faults.

Even if you know he doesn’t like it, you do anything you want whenever you feel like it.

You never listen to any of his suggestions on how to make your married life more exciting and active, like trying out new things or places to go to.

You’re getting more and more domineering as time passes. You want everything, as in everything, done or run your way.

You always have a thousand and one reasons, even if most are unrelated, whenever the two of you are discussing something. He says one sentence and you immediately answer back with 20.

You’re getting more and more insecure and possessive for no justifiable reason.

You raise suspicions even on your mutual female friends and his co-workers, or when he cites overtime or field work as an excuse in arriving late at home or for your date.

If only you could, you’d chain him to your waist 24 hours a day.

From being sweet and approachable when the two of you were starting out, you’re now unreasonably irritable.

You’re spending a lot more than you should, or could afford. You pressure him in any way you could to buy something you like but don’t have the money for.

Don’t get me wrong girls but think about everything I’ve said, SERIOUSLY, including those in Part 1.

These are all for you! 30