DON'T JUST SAY IT, SHOW IT!

A common problem that has always been referred to me, long before I started blogging, is how to convince your sweetheart that you really love him or her.

I always gave a common advice: DON’T JUST SAY IT, SHOW IT!

The old saying “Action speaks louder than words” is the most popular gauge all of us use in deciding whether or not our partner is truly in love with us.

Anyone can say ‘I love you’ a million times to any guy or girl. But if your actions don’t prove your love, that’s NOTHING, as in MEANINGLESS!

Unless you’re dealing with a first-timer in a relationship or a 13-year-old kid who doesn’t have the faintest idea of what real life is all about.

So consider these suggestions, boys and girls:

Make your presence felt as often as possible and be sincerely thoughtful, and concerned.

Call or text your partner as often as you can when you’re not together. Even if only to say ‘I love you, ’ or to remind him or her of lunch or diner time.

Guys, bring her home from work whenever you can. If you can’t, guide her on the safest way to go home and call or text her until she calls back or sends a text that she has arrived at her place.

Manifest the same concern, girls.

You can also surprise your partner at work or at home, and simply say that you missed him or her.

Even if there’s no occasion, buy your partner something he or she likes even if you’re not asked to – food, drinks, something he or she needs at work or at home, anything under the sun.

Believe me, it’s the thought that counts. Not the amount or the brand or anything else.  

As I’ve written in an earlier blog, help your partner if you can whenever there’s a problem at home or at work. If you can’t do anything, remain right beside him or her even if only for moral support.

If your partner’s sick, drop by whenever possible. If you can’t visit, regularly monitor his or her condition.

Be content with your partner’s limitations and handicaps – financially, intellectually, professionally, family concerns or whatever.  Never ask for anything beyond yor partner’s emans or capabilities.

And most of all, always accord him or her all the RESPECT due any other human being in anything, anytime, anywhere.

If you see these manifestations in your partner, reciprocate his or her love and trust me, you’re well on the way to true happiness.

If you don’t, YOU’RE WASTING YOUR TIME! 30