The daughter of a personal friend has just asked me: What must a girl look for in a man? I gave her five traits.
First and foremost, he must be God-fearing.
He must do only what is RIGHT, and stick to what is right, not WRONG! His Faith in God must be very strong in times of trials and distress.
Trust me, people, Jesus Christ and our Blessed Mother Mary won’t let you down if you’ll leave everything to them. Let me tell you of a very recent example.
A personal friend of mine was in desperate need for cash a few days ago. Failing to raise any, he prayed hard and simply told God ‘Bahala na ho kayo sa akin.’
Just two days after, he met a generous businessman-friend of his by accident. You know what happened?
After pleasantries and without him saying anything about his problem, the businessman gave him an early Christmas gift three times his salary and more than double the amount he needed.
Apart from God-fearing, the guy must be RESPONSIBLE.
He must be HARD-WORKING, and with foresight and ambition. He must know how to SAVE and HANDLE MONEY properly. He grabs every chance for promotion and, more importantly, financial independence.
The guy always thinks and plans for a bright future. He doesn’t stop aiming for success simply because he’s content with what he’s getting.
He’s the man so he should be the one who’ll spend for and take care of you and not the other way around.
The partner you’ll choose must also be SMART.
Not necessarily very smart but smart enough to know and teach you what to do in a particular situation or problem, especially if you won’t be together once you’re lovers.
He’s the man so he must be able to guide you instead of you guiding him.
Amid all these, look for HONESTY and HUMILITY.
Nothing could be worse than being CHEATED ON or DECEIVED by your lover. It would be DEHUMANIZING, to say the least. Why? You’ll be more like a TOY, whom you’re man can do anything to anytime he likes.
And if you pick a lover who feels and acts like the king of the universe, believe me you’ll never get anywhere.
The two of you WON’T HAVE ANY FRIENDS but yourselves. You will be DESPISED, not loved. Between you and him, he’s always right and you’re always wrong. You’ll never have PEACE. Promise. 30
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