Here’s an important reminder, people:
If you want your relationship to last, change for the better as it runs longer and grows stronger.
Don’t change for the worse and kill the affair yourself!
Keep in mind, 24 hours a day, everything that made your partner fall in love with and stick with you since the day you started out as sweethearts.
And I mean everything. Improve on it if you can. Spend time and money for it if you have to.
If it’s your cooking, always be on the lookout for new recipes. If it’s your intelligence, never stop reading and being up-to-date on current events, especially in his or her line of work or field of expertise.
If it’s your looks, see to it that you’re always prim and proper no matter how busy you are. Visit the parlor or a dermatologist at least once a month if you can.
But most of all, keep the RESPECT, and the CARING ALIVE!
Whether it’s just the two of you or you’re in public, NEVER HUMILIATE or INSULT your partner.
Even if you’re earning more, or hold a higher position in your profession than him or her, these don’t justify emotional or psychological abuse.
Even if you’re much more educated, or come from a richer and more prominent family than your partner, it doesn’t follow that you can treat your partner shabbily anytime you want, anyway you like.
Always treat your partner as a PERSON in every possible way. That should be UNCONDITIONAL in any relationship.
It doesn’t mean that just because you have proven that your partner really loves you, you can abuse or play with his or her feelings anytime.
In this material and sexually promiscuous world we live in today, we are all aware of the reality that TRUE LOVE is one of the RAREST gems we can find in human relations.
As I’ve written in an earlier blog, once we find it, it’s up to us if it will stay or leave us.
The choice is ours! 30
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