One of our female readers who requested not to be named is asking for signs if her boyfriend is only after sex in their relationship.
For her and all you girls out there, watch out for these signs:
More often than not, he talks about sex.
He always injects sex into or diverts your conversation to it, even though it’s totally unrelated to the topic.
For him, all your dates must end up in bed, and there had better be one hell of a reason for him to agree to a postponement.
Even if you say you’re dead tired from work or school, or depressed over something, he’d rather try to turn you on first with kisses and caresses before asking you what’s up.
He requires you to join him in watching pornographic movies at his place whenever possible, or asks you to put on one whenever he’s at your place and you’re alone.
If you refuse his sexual advances, he’s not available or capable of anything else for the rest of the day and suddenly remembers he has something to do or attend to.
He’s colder than ice or more irritable than a pre-menopausal lady in the days following your rejection of his sex request.
He first asks if you’re alone before he goes to your home.
He wants a schedule of when you’re alone at home, or the days when everybody else in the family will be on holiday or out-of-town trips and will be gone for days.
He asks that you be in sexy or revealing clothes whenever you’re together, even if you’re in an event or a party and it’s inappropriate to the crowd and the nature of the occasion.
I had written about these in an earlier blog. “When it’s lust, not love.” Check it out. 30
boyfriends never talk about sex. it is done through action. gets lucky when the girlfriend is receptive to his advances.do you ask a girlfriend for a kiss? hell no. talking takes the romantic mood away. (that's why a person described in this piece is not a boyfriend but a sex maniac).
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