A former officemate of mine has just asked me if it’s alright to have sex with her ex-boyfriend. They’re both unattached.
I immediately replied with a resounding and unconditional ’No.’
If you make love to your former boyfriend, you drastically reduce, if not totally lose, whatever respect he has left for you.
He no longer has to win your heart, or get into a commitment, just to be with you.
By making love to him again with no strings attached, he doesn’t need to do or prove anything anymore just to have you. He doesn’t need to give a damn about what you might think or feel if he asks you out.
From that moment on, you no longer deserve any special treatment or consideration as far as he’s concerned.
You’re just another woman whom he can try sweet talking into bed anytime he’s hot. In short, you’re just another sex toy whom he can play with.
Or as we say in Pilipino, ‘parausan’ (outlet).
Sex may be as common as French fries, girls, but believe me: A lot more guys fall in love more SERIOUSLY with girls who give a high value to sex.
We’ll get ‘high’ after the act, yes. But that will only be for a few minutes or hours.
A satisfaction accompanied, more often than not, by the question if you can make love to him without commitment, what’s his guarantee that you don’t do the same to other men?
Trust me, ladies: Guys would always prefer a woman with the highest self-respect and social and moral values, regardless of her looks.
Than a girl who has been voted the prettiest and sexiest in one contest after another, but doesn’t give a damn about anything when she’s lusting for someone, or something.
IT’S YOU WHO WILL LOSE, NOT THE GUY! 30
THAT'S TRUE MY DEAR. . . . . . If you give yourself. .. having sex with a guy even if he's your Ex, he'll think of you as a loose woman. . .a promiscuous woman.
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