LOVE DOESN'T ALWAYS FOLLOW CASUAL SEX!

Here’s a reminder to all you ladies out there:

Don’t ever have the delusion that a guy will fall in love with you if you readily give in to his sexual demands.

It will be the BIGGEST MISTAKE you’ll ever make.

Sex may be as normal as coffee and donuts in this promiscuous world we live in today. But believe me, girls, a quick and easy fuck IS NOT among the top criteria of us guys in searching for women worthy of true love.

Among others, we will always go for a kind-hearted woman with VALUES.

We prefer women who prioritize God, family and work or profession over guys at any given time. We want ladies with ambition and the initiative to achieve it.

And not girls who don’t even dream of a bright future, or aspire for one but are too lazy to do anything to even move closer to it.

Most of all, us guys will only seriously fall in love, and stick to just one girl, if she is HONEST AND FAITHFUL. This is where easy and instant sex can spoil everything, ladies.

If you’ll have sex with your crush or secret love without any commitment, expect any positive, emotional reaction.

Trust me, his immediate personal concern will be “If she can do it casually with me, there’s no guarantee she’s not the same with others.”

DOUBTS about your DECENCY FOLLOW. When you doubt a woman’s personality, automatically you wouldn’t respect her as much as you should.

There goes your dream of a relationship, a serious relationship.

A girl from Quezon City who once asked me for advice had this rather traumatic experience: Her long-time crush finally asked her out, and she readily agreed without thinking. They ended up fucking without being lovers.  

After that, the guy began avoiding her like a plague.

A personal case I know has this girl from Makati who agreed to a fuck-buddy setup with the man of her dreams, hoping he’d eventually formalize a relationship.

It went on for several months, until the guy started saying he’s getting busier with work. She eventually found out that actually, the guy was preparing for his wedding to another woman.

Bottom line, ladies: What you look for in us guys are basically the same things we look for in you.

Believe me, Sex is only SECONDARY. You’ll NEVER FIND TRUE LOVE if your mindset will be the contrary. 30