TORN BETWEEN TWO LOVES!

Our friend, Antonio C. of Manila, is confused, and bewildered.

He thinks he’s in love with a church mate who’s more well-off than him and about to leave for Dubai soon to work. But he can’t propose, scared that he might get hurt.

And before he could muster enough courage to do so, another church mate caught his eye and makes him feel happy when they see each other in their worship.

Now, Antonio doesn’t know what to do.

First, be 100 percent sure of whom you love or care for more. There are two ways to find out.

One is feel deep within you whom do you miss more when she’s not around. Whose absence, especially if unexpected, gives you greater concern?

Second is, with whom are you happier when you see her? On whom is it more difficult to take your eyes off when you’re together at church?

Whoever is your answer to these two questions, she’s the girl you love.

Then, pursue your feeling. Let the girl know you love her. You’ll NEVER KNOW the girl’s true feelings for you unless you try asking her. For all you know, she’s just waiting for you to propose.

If she turns you down, as I’ve written in an earlier blog, consider it as a message that God has a better girl for you.

Keep in mind that there a million more women from which you can choose, and that millions of other guys all over the world have been rejected by women at some point in their lives.

You have NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF if you’ll be turned down. Remember that.

What’s important is prove that you’re a TRUE MAN, you’re MAN ENOUGH, by speaking out your feeling, regardless of what the result will be.

Believe me, YOU WILL NEVER BE AT PEACE unless you let it out. You will also deprive yourself of an opportunity for true happiness if you’ll be tongue-tied.

Just one thing, go for personality and values in choosing whom to offer your love to. It’s perfectly normal for any guy to go for beauty. But trust me, beauty is nothing if she’s the bitch among the bitches.

Not to mention the fact that beauty fades.  30