Another common dilemma faced by girls every now and then all over the world is how to attract a man’s attention, for possible courtship that is.
Here are some simple but commonly overlooked tricks:
First and foremost, talk like a woman.
Speak softly (but make sure it’s audible) and sweetly whenever you get the chance to talk to him, personally or on the phone.
Speak naturally, no ‘pa-cute’ stuff. No street or gutter language and talk with sense. In case you don’t understand or are not familiar with what he’s saying, it’s perfectly alright to ask for clarification or what is the topic all about.
Men are attracted to honest and candid girls, women who are what they are. Hypocrites and pretenders are among the biggest turn-offs to guys.
As you talk like a woman, act like a woman.
From the way you walk to how you carry yourself, like the clothes you wear, be sure that you’ll be a complete woman (or babaeng-babae as we say in Pilipino) from all angles.
In trying to look beautiful don’t overdo yourself, like applying excessive make-up to the point that you’ll look more like a prostitute than an ordinary decent woman.
Learn more about proper behavior or social graces for women when with men. If you have to, browse the Internet or buy a book on etiquette.
NEVER BE VULGAR OR INDECENT in any manner whatsoever.
DON’T EVEN THINK of attracting the guy’s attention with sexually provocative clothes or language.
The guy will be drawn to you, yes.
Bur trust me, it will be for LUST and not ADMIRATION. He will approach you only for a possible quick and easy fuck, and not because you’re too beautiful to ignore.
Men will always go for RESPECTABLE and DECENT, even though ordinary-looking, women than pretty but VULGAR and foul-mouthed ladies.
And most of all, be CIVIL not only to him but to everyone.
Never speak ill of others, especially if you’ll only base it on rumors or hearsay. Even if you’re not with him, your common friends or people who know you will be the ones to put in a good word or two about you to him.
And believe me, girls who know how to BEHAVE properly are always a winner for men. Promise. 30
AWWWRYT!!!!
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