Let me remind you, boys and girls, of a very critical fact to consider in loving:
If your partner really loves you, he or she will RESPECT you! Here are five common but often overlooked signs everyone should watch out for:
If your partner really loves you, he or she will never shame or humiliate you in any manner anywhere and in front of anybody.
Whatever mistake you committed will be discussed by both of you in private. And that mistake will stay with the two of you if your partner really respects your privacy, and dignity.
Your partner will never say anything bad about you, especially your imperfections, in front of others.
Your partner really loves you if you could give your opinion if you want to, and follows it if it’s the better option. That is a manifestation not only of respect but also of how important are you to him or her.
If your partner asks you to shut up even before you could open your mouth, you’re not into a relationship. You’re in a dictatorship. You’re not a sweetheart, you’re a puppet.
When it comes to looks, your partner doesn’t object to whatever you want to wear or makes you comfortable when you’re together.
Unless it’s inappropriate, like you want to wear walking shorts to a wedding both of you will attend.
If your partner doesn’t respect your choice of clothes, or accessories and wants to dictate what you should put on, you’re nothing but a life-sized Barbie doll or mannequin to him or her.
Better find out if your partner’s gay or not.
Most of all, if your partner really loves you, he or she will NEVER REVEAL OR SPREAD details of your intimate moments, especially your sexual encounters, to anyone.
He or she will NEVER VIDEOTAPE your lovemaking, and show it after to friends.
True love is treating you as the most precious and treasured person to keep in your lives, and not as a special commodity for public consumption.
If you’re into any of these five situations, better end the relationship. Fast! If you won’t, time for you to visit your psychologist, if not psychiatrist! 30
thanks for the post! may I add that "Love is the act after being just"; Hindi pagibig kung kapos sa katarungan! paglagpas sa katarungan ang pag-ibig!
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