Sarah25 of Makati is single and having an affair with her married boss. She wants to end it but she needs her job. Her boss has made it clear that once it’s over for them, everything else she gets stops.
Here’s how to go about it, Sarah25:
First, go on leave for as long as you can. Give all the possible reasons you can think of.
Then, use the leave to look for a new job. Browse the Web daily, call or visit friends, go over the classified ads section of all the newspapers you can get hold of or inquire from friends or governments on what small business you can start with your savings.
Once you learn or stumble on something, grab it. No matter how small or insignificant it may be.
Keep in mind that you need to start anew, and need every opportunity and peso you can earn from other sources. Devote your time and energy to make it grow as fast as you can.
Ask for suggestions or recommendations from relatives and friends if you have to. And as you do all these, pray daily. Pray hard for guidance and spiritual strength.
In the process, SAVE, SAVE, SAVE! Condition your mind that you are about to lose, and must live without, whatever perks or extras you enjoy from your boss.
Meanwhile, start distancing yourself from your boss. Again, come up with all possible, and logical alibis – you’re sick or feeling sick, there’s a family problem you need to attend to personally, there’s a special occasion which requires your presence, everything.
Avoid or minimize all contacts with your boss as much as possible.
Once your venture starts earning the barest minimum you need to survive, END THE AFFAIR and RESIGN from your job.
But don’t tell the real reason behind the sudden changes in your lifestyle, and outlook in life. There’s no reason to. Preserve your dignity in the eyes of others!
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