Deception is another worldwide concern when it comes to love and relationships.
Whether it’s still in the courtship stage or the first days of the affair, all of us want to know as early as possible if the other person or our partner is a liar or not.
I hope these tips could help:
If your suitor pr partner claims to be a rich kid, the clothes should at least be of good quality and branded. He or she should be a student or graduate of a known school for wealthy or financially above-average children.
If you’re a graduate of that school or are familiar with it’s surroundings, you can test that person by asking questions about it.
That person should at least be aware of known hangouts or fun places wealthy people usually go to. He or she doesn’t speak street language.
The skin is soft and smooth, free from signs of overwork like wrinkles and visible veins.
If that person claims to be a businessman or corporate executive, ask questions about the nature of the business or the company.
It would be best f you’ll ask questions which you also know the answers to.
If he or she claims to be a professional, talk about the job.
Legal matters if he or she claims to be a lawyer, signs and symptoms of diseases if a doctor, basics of media work if a reporter or editor, position and place of assignment if a policeman or law enforcer, the exact scope of work if an engineer or a architect and other relevant concerns.
If that person is for real, there should be no problem for him or her to look at you straight in the eye while answering casually.
If you’re just talking over the phone, there should be no hesitation or stammering as he or she replies to your questions or reacts to your statements.
If you’re not convinced, verify his or her claims yourself.
Call the supposed employer. Double-check the answers to your queries with people you know who are in the same profession or field that he or she claims to be in.
Bottom line: Check out the other person first, before you fall too deep in love with hi or her.
Remember, it’s YOU WHO WILL BE HURT, not him or her. 30
If you check me out I'll dump you for sure , Honest people have no reason to going around playing cop . and as loose minded as most females are look out for the la rania bobbits of the world guys !
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