Before anything else, decision-making is the toughest stage a girl must go through on loving – whether it’s for a new boyfriend or for choosing a lifetime partner.
Whenever I’m asked for advice, I always give two, just two generic suggestions.
Decide on your own, but listen to others.
The final decision will have to come from you. Whatever it is, it must be in accordance with what you really feel, and think as the best choice.
And not what others say or think.
It’s your future, most especially your happiness, which is at stake and not anybody else’s.
You’re the object of affection. It’s you who gets to see and be with the guy most often. Therefore, it’s you who’s in the best position to evaluate or gauge the guy’s true intentions.
Through his actions and reactions, his eyes, his choice of words and every other measure that you can think of.
So take your own sweet time in coming up with your judgment. No matter how long it takes. A major cause of failed relationships is hasty decisions, often on the part of the girl.
And, remember this, TRUE LOVE IS PATIENT. That’s indisputable, and UNCONDITIONAL.
But there’s nothing wrong if you will ask others -- especially your elders like your parents, grandparents and even uncles and aunts – for their opinion of your chosen one.
Your elders have gone through what you’re into now.
They have had a lot more experience, and known a lot more people than you have. They can look deeper into a person’s eyes, and beyond a guy’s actions, than you can.
Their views and words of wisdom will definitely help you make the right choice. It may not be 100 percent accurate but trust me girls, it will.
Not just dads but elders know best when it comes to love and loving, ladies. Promise.30
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