Here are some common signs of maturity that you can look and watch out for in your lover:
Your lover goes for and does only what is right.
He or she leads or guides you to it, even though it’s not always in accordance with your wishes, because it will make you a better person.
When you’re wrong but still insist on what you want, your lover doesn’t give way whatever it takes (like not seeing or talking to you indefinitely) until you realize your mistake.
If your lover is tempting or ordering you to try or do something bad like illegal drugs, that is not love. Get rid of him or her immediately.
Your lover is not a dictator, prefers a two-way than one-way relationship and readily admits a mistake and apologizes for it.
Your lover is not insecure, doesn’t get jealous without a reason and tries to understand your explanation whenever you quarrel.
If he or she has to, your lover gives way to your needs, your priorities like your job and to your family and loved ones. Instead of forcing you to still see him or her, your lover tells you to take all the time you need to do what you have to do.
Your lover has an ambition to succeed in life and works for it. He or she looks forward to the future, your future as a couple.
He or she doesn’t just daydream, or doesn’t waste time and money on life’s non-essentials like vices (especially drinking and gambling) and endless barhopping or parties with friends.
Your lover has a word of honor.
Your lover is patient enough to know when to keep cool, and when to stand up and be heard.
He or she does not insult or humiliate you, especially in public, if you’re in a misunderstanding. But when it’s a matter of right or wrong or principle, your lover speaks out without hesitation anytime, anywhere.
If you see these traits in your lover, consider yourself blessed and one of the luckiest persons in the world to have him or her. To let him or her go would be the BIGGEST MISTAKE you will ever commit for the rest of your life. 30
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