Sacrifice goes with love and loving. But the question is when should we sacrifice for our lover and when should we not.
Sacrifice for your lover only if:
Your sweetheart is incapable of carrying out duties or responsibilities in the relationship due to a valid reason, like physical disability or his or her job.
Your sweetheart simply doesn’t have the means to provide the lifestyle and comforts you want in a relationship.
Your sweetheart can only offer you so much because he or she is the only one who spends for and looks after their family.
Your sweetheart is correcting character flaws or imperfections that often lead to quarrels or misunderstandings between the two of you.
Your sweetheart is working his or her butt out in the office for both higher pay and recognition by superiors for possible promotion.
Your sweetheart is controlling unnecessary expenses because he or she already wants to save for your future as a couple.
Your sweetheart acknowledges your efforts and reciprocates by following your suggestions or wishes as proof that he or she really loves you.
STOP, or don’t even think of sacrificing in any manner if:
Your sweetheart would not even listen to your ideas or comments to keep the love alive in your relationship.
Your sweetheart doesn’t want to hear your constructive criticisms of his or her personality.
Your lover is LAZY and does not even dream of succeeding in life. This kind of sweetheart will lead you to a life of financial and emotional suffering, not of Paradise .
For your lover, it’s only he or she who is always right and you’re always wrong. I have a friend from Paranaque
Your partner consistently belittles or insults your financial, social and professional standing. You don’t have a lover. You have a gold digger or a social climber.
You’re getting sick, and your job or relationship with your family is being adversely affected by the sacrifices you’re doing.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Love is a two-way street, not one. THAT’S UNCONDITIONAL! 30
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