TIME TO LET GO IF...

This topic was suggested by our friend April Kathlene Penuela.

Not all love affairs culminate in marriage or lifetime ‘live-in’ unions. Some simply fail or don’t wok out, regardless of how long the couple has been together.

So the question is when do you let go of your lover, and of the affair? Consider these suggestions, boys and girls.

Time to let go if:

Your lover is married, or is also having an affair with another person with your knowledge.

You have already cheated on your lover by whatever manner, whether you simply went on an innocent date with another man or woman without permission or had sex all night long with him or her.

In your heart and mind, you can no longer deny that you have fallen in love with somebody else, even if you’ve not started out with that person.

The relationship isn’t growing, or getting nowhere. You quarrel a lot more often than being sweet to and sharing dreams with each other. 

You no longer miss your lover when he or she isn’t around.

You no longer get jealous even when he or she is openly flirting with somebody else, or asks permission to meet an ex-sweetheart, an admirer or crush for whatever reason.

You don’t, or hardly, worry now if your lover if sick, late in coming home or in a far and dangerous land. You don’t even feel checking on his or her condition regularly.

You don’t go all-out anymore in helping solve his or her problems, and blame first before asking questions.

You now prefer, and enjoy being with somebody else, whether friends or admirers, than your lover.

I agree 1001 percent that in most cases, it’s never that easy and simple to let go.

But remember, boys and girls, there’s no justification for you to CONTINUE SUFFERING, OR LET OTHER PEOPLE SUFFER, UNNECESSARILY.

You’ll be the bigger loser in the long run, believe me. 30