Question: How do you stop your sweetheart or partner from doing things you hate without ending the relationship?
Answer: Impose a stiff punishment, but be sure to STICK TO IT until your lover obeys you or changes for the better.
Bull-headed partners do their thing, including those you don’t like, because THEY GET AWAY WITH IT. WORDS WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH for them to follow and respect you.
Here’s what you can do:
Give your bull-headed partner the cold shoulder treatment. Wherever you are, talk only in reply to something when you’re together. Otherwise, IGNORE him or her completely, as if you’re alone.
STOP dating him or her, especially if it’s for sex.
STOP SHOWING INTEREST in everything your partner loves and likes, from his or her family to friends and favorites, like food and hobbies.
Show as little concern as possible in everything, whether or not he or she is sick or late in arriving home or in meeting you, problematic at work, or other related circumstances.
Apply reverse psychology, or do the things he or she doesn’t want you to do. If your lover gets mad, answer back by saying if he or she can do it to you, then why can’t you?
Socialize and excitedly tell your partner about the new guys or girls you’ve just met. Without directly comparing them, zero in on the good traits you find on your new acquaintance.
If all these won’t work, initiate a no-holds barred dialogue with emphasis on the fact that the relationship is one-way and getting nowhere.
Be sure that you’ll talk in a place where you’ll be safe. No one can really tell 100 percent how a bull-headed partner will react in situations like that.
If possible, bring a friend with you and ask him or her to watch and listen from the nearest possible position.
If the dialogue fails, it’s time to THROW YOUR LOVER OUT and exit from the inferno you’re in. There’s no excuse for wasting one’s life on somebody UNWORTHY of it. 30
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